Add --module node18 #60705

Node v16 is EOL, and --module node16 is an awkward target because it doesn't support import attributes, but requires import assertions to import JSON. With #60534, nodenext will advance to support require(esm), so we will want to have a module target that represents Node.js beore require(esm) but after import attributes.

--module node18 will be identical to 5.7's nodenext (except perhaps for the implied --target), and --module node16 will be deprecated in TypeScript 6.0.